Helping is one thing.

Implicating your loved ones in doing so is another.

To Help, or to Protect? Both are fundamentally good and noble.

How then, does it become a negative?

Maybe you might think me selfish, but I really just want to be left out of this.

When someone throws the Selfish card, always remember that a person's Happiness is sometimes at the expense of their Loved Ones' Happiness. How long more do I have to give up mine for yours?